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22, no kids that I know of, I aim to keep it that way for now. I'm not in a place financially or relationship(-ally?) to father a child.

Someday, sure, when I'm capable of caring for a child and have a serious partner. Talked about it with my ex-fiance (not planning to have kids, but it's better to have a plan in case accidents happen, than to not have a plan) but nothing ever came of it. And then we split up. So it looks like that's a no-go :p

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22, no kids that I know of, I aim to keep it that way for now. I'm not in a place financially or relationship(-ally?) to father a child.

Someday, sure, when I'm capable of caring for a child and have a serious partner. Talked about it with my ex-fiance, but nothing ever came of it. And then we split up. So it looks like that's a no-go :p

 

And far too young anyway, IMHO to be thinking about children. :)

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And far too young anyway, IMHO to be thinking about children. :)

I didn't say we'd made arrangements to have a baby, I said we'd discussed it :p Accidents happen - we figured having a plan was better than not. That wasn't really made clear in my post, I guess. I shall edit it accordingly.

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I didn't say we'd made arrangements to have a baby, I said we'd discussed it :p Accidents happen - we figured having a plan was better than not. That wasn't really made clear in my post, I guess. I shall edit it accordingly.

 

I suppose what I meant was that 22 is young to be even discussing it IMO

I didnt meet mrwITch till I was 25 and we didnt reproduce until I was 29 and that was a "surprise"

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No kids, and no plans in the next 3-4 years. Getting married in June though. My Fiancee is going through a secondment process from being a Ward Support worker at the hospital to being a Staff Nurse, which means a hell of a lot of coursework
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I suppose what I meant was that 22 is young to be even discussing it IMO

I didnt meet mrwITch till I was 25 and we didnt reproduce until I was 29 and that was a "surprise"

 

Mrs Teejay was 20, I was 19 when we had our son, wouldn't change things but it was flippin tough, so yes I would agree a bit later in life is better. Enjoy the joys of being young and free while you can :)

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I suppose what I meant was that 22 is young to be even discussing it IMO

Enjoy the joys of being young and free while you can :)

My plan is - roughly - maybe in 3 or 4 years. Gives me time to cement myself into a stable career, find a nice lady to settle down with and have a house that's suitable for little ones. How well that works out, I don't know. Kids aren't something I'm actively aiming towards at this current time in my life. So it might be another 10 years before I father a child, or I might have one already I don't know about (I dread to think!). Life has its way of never playing out according to plan, or so I hear.

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Been together 9 years, married and moved into our house in 2012 so still early, but at 29 I'm not sure if we want to produce our own. We like kids but alth we both work with them every day, we enjoy giving them back at the end of the day and them being someone elses responsibility. If it happens it happens and we work things through but no plans at the moment.

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