This is a very good question! I can say having looked into this before in the UK that the likes of Facebook DO NOT own the photos once their uploaded. However, the uploader will have granted royalty-free and non-exclusive rights to reuse the photos globally so bear that in mind. In reality this permits them, for example, to allow global users to see those photographs if you have so permitted. This is obviously the way Facebook works and you can control to a certain extent through privacy settings in the relevant application.
Importantly, when you delete those photos from the likes of Facebook, you are ending that IP license thereby revoking any rights they had. Handy when you consider you might have a parent withdrawing consent at some point - which they have every right to do.