abillybob Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Hey Guys Since the other thread was locked I thought I'd just post this to show my appreciation of all the advice that all of you gave to me in the "Never Felt Like This Before." Thread. I have found a few new things about her which actually helped me get over her... It's not my fault, I live in a small town I'm going to hear these types of stuff. I'll start off by saying personally I don't like a girl with Tattoo's or piercings, it's your right to get them done if you like them and that's cool I'm not one to judge, but not my personal taste, some I can manage depending on where they are and how big etc... but others just make me turn the other way, anyway turns out she's got 8 new piercings and a Tattoo in the shape of a heart on her wrist, I have also had confirmation of the multiple men she's been seeing - again fine her choice, but not my type. It's all really put me off and I can honestly say I really couldn't care less anymore, I am sleeping much easier and actually look at the situation as if I have dodged a bullet rather than loosing someone I care about. I think it's worrying slightly that a people can change so suddenly it was only the other day she was insulting her friend when she got a love heart on her wrist and said it looked like a child drew it.... well guess what now she's got one eh!?!?! But I wish her all the best if that's the type of lifestyle she wants. You lot all put it into honest perspective for me and I do appreciate all the help. I would also like to apologise if the thread in anyway caused any problems. This isn't another thread to start any problems again but just take it as a Thankyou and move on from it. Best Wishes abillybob! 4
hardtailstar Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Sounds like you are mentally at stage I call 'Why did I do all that', Its the stage where you realize a few things and put your past to bed so to speak. I'm glad you found the edugeek massive helpful, I watched the thread and as most people put advice that I would say I didn't comment but glad to see you are turning that corner Hope all is good.
abillybob Posted October 2, 2014 Author Posted October 2, 2014 Yep you where all right, feel like a right noggin' now for acting the way I did... I think if she was still the same person I remembered I would still be quite upset, but after finding out everything I have I can't even look at her and think she's attractive anymore. I think in a way it's helped me get over her much quicker!! I'm just happy this all didn't happen a year down the line when we where meant to be getting a house That's why I think I've dodged a bullet.
hardtailstar Posted October 2, 2014 Posted October 2, 2014 Yep you where all right, feel like a right noggin' now for acting the way I did... no need to feel like that, sometimes we all need that extra view point. 1
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