Look buddy, I see the point you are trying to make, I agree that there are exceptions to my statement. However I think you are intelligent enough to see the point that I was attempting to make. The lunch lady was clearly in the wrong and trying to push her own agenda or just saying that she doesnt care about the parent or the childs rights to refuse. Considering the fact that her sole purpose in that enviroment is to serve food from behind a counter, she grossly exceeded her brief and was way out of bounds with physically touching that child under the circumstances.