In OrganizationRelationship you can set the default level from Free/Busy to LimitedDetails. ( for example we have FreeBusyAccessLevel : LimitedDetails). Also in ECP, you can configure several different levels of access to calendar for cross-forest (or external) calendar access). But if we get same answer you got, it is kind of a deal-breaker for us because we were told by MS consultant it is supposed to be possible to open cross-forest calendars with Free/busy or with LimitedDetails. I would understand if the calendar would open with Free/Busy status shown only, but currently you can't open the calendar at all anymore.
Most of our users are Outlook users so the situation is not worst possible. I fear the OWA change is just the beginning and Outlook stops working too.
We still haven't heard anything from the support.