Ouch! None of this is looking very good is it =( Just glad I didnt spend that much money! I will see if he keeps his word next week and if I dont hear anything not much I can do apart from pursue a refund from the cc/bank. Never thought I would be silly enough to get caught by people like this, I will be so much more careful in the future!
A massive ty to all who have helped though, I was at a total loss of what to do until today, so I at least feel like I have accomplished something now =)