Ok, after a long debate much earlier in the forum i thought i would share my final thought, after trying to find the perfect linux distro, i have finally come to a desision.
Linux mint for me is outright the best, in my opinion of course.
It has the nice simplicity of a windows desktop with the "trying to be a windows replacement distro"
So it still has the beautiful polished feel of a wonderful GNOME distro.
I think its fab! so anyone wondering what distro to choose, leave the "buntu's" and get on mint!