Memory usage on my personal VPS
Long long story, but for a while my VPS has had high memory usage, not really a problem but it does cause the server to randomly fall over. Now I only have a few paying customers on there it's got better but I would still like to sort it. Under process manager I have quite a few entries like this
/usr/local/apache/bin/httpd -k start -DSSL
Each one takes about 3.5% memory so having 10 or 12 of them at any one time is annoying. Anyone know of a way to make sure these are killed off? I have been through many many suggestions and changed things under Tweak Settings and these have not made much difference if any!