Originally Posted by
SYNACK
It sounds like you are being backskattered. This is when someone upstream is sending spam and spoofing one of your email addresses. When these get marked as spam or denied because the address does not exist all the failure reports come back to the address that apparently sent it.
The best way to get around this is mave your domain name provider and get them to setup SPF records on your domain which set up rules on where email can originate from. Most antispam products now will run SPF checks on a domain name to make sure that the sender is actually alowed to be the source of an email from that domain. This does not prevent all of these types of incidents but it does totally help.